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Saturday, November 16, 2013

Parting seems NORMAL... isn't it?

One more week... and I have to continue my life as a lecturer. Living far from my children bothers me a lot but what can I do...

My twins will be transferred to a new school next year due to their personal problems that can only be solved by their dad. Although my heart doesn't allow them to live far away from me, but my common sense asked me to do so.

Living as a working mother is not easy. You can ask anyone if you like and the answer would be the same - juggling things at the same time seems impossible but most working women can tackle them; one by one.

With the help of the husband, the house chores can be handled easily; but when you live with your children and your husband works somewhere else, it could be difficult for you to handle.

It has been two years for my twins and they didn't find Jengka that appealing. They requested to stay in Kuala Lumpur with their dad. It hurts me... but thinking that they will be happy with their dad and they promised me to study hard lead me to the decision of letting them go.

I know my decision seems cruel to my youngest daughter for she is really close to her brother. She would feel lonely without the twins and I would feel empty without them.

What can I do? -SIGH-

Friday, November 15, 2013

Marry Him If You Dare



The reason why I like this drama is because of there are so many talented people in it. The story revolves around 6 main characters whereby the future Na Mi Rae (Choi Myung Gil) from the year 2038 comes back to the year 2013 to make some amendments towards her unsuccessful marriage to Kim Shin (Lee Dong Gun).

The young Na Mi Rae (Yoon Eun Hye) is really surprised to learn that her future will not be as bright as she has imagined before. During her confrontation with her future self, her current state has somehow changed drastically.

Meanwhile, Park Se Joo (Jung Yong Hwa) fell in love with Na Mi Rae and they are entangled with Kim Shin who confessed that he also loves Na Mi Rae. But to make it interesting, the one who should marry Park Se Joo is Seo Yoo Kyung (Han Chae Ah) found out that something is wrong somewhere, so she started to investigate the relationship between the young Na Mi Rae with the old Na Mi Rae...

The story is quite refreshing and I love the way the story is being narrated. You should watch this if you like to watch them acting out their fascinating roles...

Thursday, November 14, 2013

The Suspicious Housekeeper


A kind of serious Korean Drama if you like to have a change for your prime time. It is about Park Bok Nyeo (Choi Ji Woo) who lost her husband and her son in a tragedy caused by fire - her stalker Seo Ji Hoon (Song Jong Ho) was jealous of her happiness turned out to be the arsonist. Seo Ji Hoon changed his identity as Jang Do Hyung and he keeps chasing Park Bok Nyeo after that incident.

Park Bok Nyeo works as a professional housekeeper and her work is splendid. So when Eun Sang Chul (Lee Sung Jae) hired her, there are so many interesting events take place. Eun Sang Chul's wife committed suicide after learning that his husband has an affair with Yoon Song Hwa (Wang Ji Hye).

What I really like about this drama is the other side of Choi Ji Woo - she is really a brilliant actress and she managed to play her role tremendously! And the rest of the characters manage to make the drama interesting to watch...


Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Pakaian Kakitangan Awam...

Agak terkesima juga saya membaca artikel ini : http://tengoktvonline.blogspot.com/2013/11/pakaian-penjawat-awam-mencolok-mata.html

Tetapi pada saya, memang ada segelintir yang suka ber'fesyen' ketika ke pejabat - tak kira lah apa alasan yang diberikan oleh individu tersebut. Cuma memang jubah sekarang ni ada yang terlalu ketat sehingga menampakkan susuk tubuh. Bahkan ada seorang ustaz di tempat saya bekerja pernah mengeluarkan kata-kata sedihnya (lebih kurang begini), "Hari Jumaat adalah hari yang Seksi...dan Seksa..."

Memanglah berpakaian itu hak masing-masing, cuma yang menatapnya tidak mempunyai hak untuk memberi komen negatif jika terlalu menarik perhatian. Yang berhak menegur adalah suami / abang / atau muhrim individu tersebut.

Dan lagi satu...bertudung dan ber'fesyen' tetapi masih lagi terdedah... bab ini pun hanya yang layak sahaja boleh menegur. Kalau ditegur, umpama mencari nahas sesama rakan sekerja. Saya bukanlah alim sangat, tetapi ingin menjaga maruah suami, ayah, adik-adik lelaki dan anak lelaki saya.

Saya juga gemar ber'fesyen' dan selalunya saya akan meminta izin suami dahulu terutamanya jika ada majlis-majlis rasmi atau bertema... dan saya juga tidak salahkan kaum wanita kerana fesyen kan merupakan sebahagian perkara yang boleh memberi impak yang sangat besar terutamanya terhadap keyakinan diri mereka sehari-hari.

Terpulanglah kepada kaum wanita untuk membuat penilaian terhadap apa yang mereka pakai...saya pun wanita juga....:)

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Minat orang... lain-lain...

Tiba-tiba terbaca komen seorang pengguna Facebook berkenaan dengan ketaksuban orang Malaysia dengan K-Pop sampai terbawa-bawa dengan bahasa Korea yang digunakan dalam kehidupan mereka seharian.

Pada saya, terpulanglah kepada minat masing-masing kerana itu adalah hak peribadi masing-masing. Dah nama pun media sosial, maka penggunanya berhak meletakkan nama samaran mereka dan tidak perlulah mengeluarkan 'statement' mengutuk mana-mana individu yang berbuat demikian.

Contoh terbaik dengan penggemar cerita Melayu : Love you Mr. Arrogant... mereka akan sentiasa bercerita tentang cerita tersebut walaupun sudah menutup tabir di kaca televisyen. Secara amnya, bukan semua rakyat Malaysia yang tergila-gilakan sangat budaya K-Pop sampai lupa budaya sendiri...

Saya pun minat juga dengan drama-drama Korea, tetapi tidak terlalu taksub sampai semua benda pun nak berwajahkan Korea... saya masih lagi berpijak di bumi yang nyata. Kalau anak-anak muda yang terikut-ikut dengan budaya K-Pop, ini mungkin disebabkan naluri muda mereka ingin mencuba sesuatu yang asing dan baru. Saya rasa, golongan yang sudah berusia dari mereka mungkin lebih arif dengan aktiviti cuba mencuba ni... mereka juga pernah bergelar anak muda pada suatu masa dahulu.

Sedikit sebanyak saya agak terasa juga dengan komen pengguna FB tersebut namun secara rasionalnya, lantak dia lah nak cakap apa pun sebab... minat orang ni tak sama!

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