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Saturday, December 31, 2011

Senarai Semak 2011

Esok...2012 akan menjelma. Maka, sudahkan anda selesaikan apa yang patut diselesaikan pada tahun 2011? Sila semak senarai di bawah: (Tanda yang mana perlu)

1.  Kerja-kerja berkaitan : Bonus dah dapat, prestasi anda macam mana? Meningkat / Menurun / Ikut mood?

2.  Hubungan dengan rakan sekerja : Ada tak tarik muka / masam-masam / gaduh-gaduh / teman tapi mesra ?

3.  Hubungan dengan suami / isteri : Baik kah / dilambung ombak kah / sedang-sedang saja ?

4.  Hubungan dengan anak-anak : Mesra kah / rapat kah / semakin menjauh ?

5.  Hubungan dengan majikan : Bertambah baik / susah nak cakap / nanti lah difikirkan...

6.  Hutang piutang : Hampir selesai / tengah sakit kepala / usaha demi keluarga

7.  Amalan seharian : solat 5 waktu / zakat pendapatan / zakat harta / sedekah / ganti puasa / fidyah puasa / 
                                amalan-amalan sunat yang lain (anda semak la ye...)

My Princess

One more interesting Korean drama to watch. It is quite typical Korean drama, but I like the actors and actresses in that drama. The story revolves around four different characters : Lee Sul (Kim Tae Hee), Park Hae Young (Song Seung Heon), Oh Yoon Joo (Park Ye Jin) and Prof. Nam (Ryu Su Yeong).

Although the plot is simple, but there are some hilarious moments in it. The story is about a lost imperial granddaughter. She has been found living among the citizens. There is a complot to dethrone her. But, luckily she managed to overcome all the obstacles with the help of Park Hae Young.

The ending is happy like I expected it to be...I do love happy ending.

Friday, December 30, 2011

Leaving them behind...

Bye 2011...Welcome 2012...

What have you been doing through this whole year? You might have a happy ending or maybe a sad ending before you start your whole new year. Believe it or not... you are actually leaving them behind. Although you have encountered so many incidents in your life, leaving them behind is quite a wonderful thing to do.


Why do I say so? Well... some of us might have a terrific year and some of us might have tasted the pain in their life, but overall, life is unexpected. What do you expect it to be? It is unpredictable; for life itself is a journey without knowing which path or route to take in order to survive.

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Quality Hotel, Shah Alam

Setelah berkursus 3 hari  2 malam di Quality Hotel, Shah Alam... ini yang dapat saya simpulkan tentang hotel tersebut.

4 Bintang untuk Bilik Tidur
                                     2 Bintang untuk Tempat Kursus kami (Kayangan 6)


3 Bintang untuk makanan 
3 Bintang untuk Kemudahan pengunjung 
3 Bintang untuk Jalan masuk ke Hotel


Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Cekodok Nestum

Kalau anda ada bayi yang sudah mula makan nestum dan makanan lain... anda boleh mencuba resepi ini. Terutamanya jika nestum sudah mula tidak digemari si kecil tersayang.

Resepi ni mak saya yang ciptakan... nestum anak saudara dah lama terbiar dalam tin. Daripada ia dibazirkan, boleh juga digunakan...


Bahan-bahannya:

2      Cawan tepung gandum
1/2   Cawan nestum (boleh juga nestum yang kasar. Nestum 3
        in 1, tidak digalakkan...)
1      Biji telur
Air secukupnya.
Garam seadanya.
Gula secukup rasa.

*** Kacau semua bahan. Sebati. Cukup sebati jika mudah
       diceduk dengan sudu. Goreng hingga masak.

*** Sedap dimakan panas-panas. Bau nestumnya....hmmmm.....sedap dan wangi sangat....

Selamat mencuba.....

Monday, December 26, 2011

Cekodok Tapai...

Resepi terbaru mak...


2 cawan tepung gandum
1 biji telur
Air secukupnya
1/2 cawan tapai pulut - hancurkan dulu.
Sedikit garam.
Gula secukupnya.

Cara membuatnya:

Gaul kesemua bahan macam nak buat cekodok biasa. Jangan terlalu cair. Agak-agak boleh diceduk dengan sudu.

Goreng hingga masak. Kalau yang suka tapai banyak, boleh lah letak banyak sikit.

Selamat mencuba...

Puasa...

Alhamdulillah....

Rasa lega sangat bila sudah cukup menggantikan puasa yang ditinggalkan kerana ketika itu saya masih berpantang. Hanya sempat mengerjakan 9 hari sahaja pada Bulan Ramadhan yang lepas.

Memang sudah menjadi kebiasaan saya dan suami untuk berpuasa sebaik sahaja masuk hari ke-2 di Bulan Syawal (Jika tiada apa-apa yang menghalang).Terima kasih kepada suami saya yang menggalakkan saya berpuasa 6 hari pada Bulan Syawal...maklumlah, sebelum berkahwin, liat sikit nak puasa enam.

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Bukan mudah...

Bukan mudah menjadi anak...

1.  Kena perlu sentiasa hormatkan kedua ibu bapa dan kaum keluarga.
2.  Kena sentiasa peka akan keperluan keluarga.
3.  Kena selalu menjaga nama baik keluarga.
4.  Kena sentiasa mendapat izin daripada ibu dan bapa dalam
     segala hal...


Tapi...yang selalu berlaku...

1.  "Ada aku kisah? Hal aku...aku lah yang jaga. Ala...kubur lain-
     lain kan. Masing-masing jaga hal sendiri la.."
2.  "Nak berseronok pun tak bagi! Aku nak jugak merasa
      kebebasan!"

Saturday, December 24, 2011

My heartache...does hurt...

Listening to every word uttered by her make me realized that there is a person who doesn't have any feelings towards other people's misfortune. Without waiting any longer, I poured my feelings out towards her - no more asking permission to speak or to judge.


My heart feels like it was being pulled hard enough from its place. It's going to be torn apart - will somehow lose the grip. It was hard for me to endure the pain caused by that person all this while, but she doesn't seem to notice that in the first place.

It is not how you learn something, but how you live your life according to what you have learned. This is  an important element in life for you are not living alone - you are living in a society; a big one. If you are going to act like you know nothing, simply relying on others' hard work on something, you will be considered as a loser. Although you are from a higher educational level than me, your acts are just like small children to me.

My heart does ache sometimes. It hurts a lot. The pain is sharper than you thought it would be. You wouldn't even try to notice it for you are ignorant for that kind of thing. It is not important to you as you are the center of everything in your life. Me, on the other hand, trying hard to smile innocently without having the courage to say that "You are not really good as you think you are!!!"


Believe me, I'm not weak, but I'm afraid if I said something bad, your heart cannot accept the pain I'll cause later. I'm just being a good person here for I know what goes around comes around...

Friday, December 23, 2011

Kenapalah....

Kenapalah...
Ada orang yang suka cakap ikut suka
Suka sangat main hentam saja.

Kenapalah...
Kalau bercakap tu tak toleh kiri kanan
Main ikut sedap bahasa dan gaya badan.

Kenapalah...
Kalau berjanji sukar untuk ditepati
Padahal sering memuji diri sendiri.

Kenapalah...
Katanya belajar terlalu tinggi
Tapi perlukah meninggikan diri?

Kenapalah...
Gemar mencari kesalahan orang
Sedangkan diri sendiri pun banyak kekurangan.

Kenapalah...
Berlagak pandai dan cekap
Sedangkan hanya reti bercakap.

Kenapalah...
Perlu menegak benang yang basah
Kalau nak menghulur bantuan pun susah.

Kenapalah...
Katanya berilmu tinggi
Tapi lagak dan gaya macam syok sendiri.

Kadang-kala hidup ini di atas,
Kadang-kala ia di bawah,
Kalau lah kita sentiasa menindas,
Kelak hidup akan sentiasa susah.

Biarlah senyuman sentiasa di bibir,
Walau hati ini hampir menangis,
Kerana bahagia itu terlalu hampir,
Dan kerana ia tidak layak ditangis.

Friday, December 16, 2011

Jengka oh Jengka....Ep 3

Akhirnya.....selesai juga urusan pembelian rumah di Jengka. Walaupun harganya...emmm....boleh tahan, dek kesusahan hidup tanpa tempat berteduh, membuatkan saya terpaksa membeli rumah di sini. Ada juga yang bertanya..."Berapa lama nak kerja di Jengka ni?" Senang saja saya menjawab..."Sampai pencen, boleh tak?"

Bukan apa, rumah tu kan aset semasa hidup. Anak-anak kan ada, kalau saya dah 'pergi' meninggalkan mereka pun, aset tu hak mereka bertiga. Sewakan saja rumah tu...tuai saja hasilnya kelak.

Rasa sangat gembira apabila pinjaman diluluskan kerajaan.....

Maka, tidak sabarlah untuk memikirkan deko yang sesuai untuk rumah yang baru nanti....

Kepada yang mendoakan saya, terima kasih banyak-banyak...rupa-rupanya perjalanan hidup saya ini dipermudahkan Allah...

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Simply ordinary....

It was a quite hectic week...but still, I have to keep track with this week's lesson plan. After having a long tiring meeting last Tuesday, one of my colleagues suddenly said something to me. I was so angry at that moment. It seemed that some of my students complaint about me nagging in the class. I don't really know what kind of nagging it would be, but the way I heard it, I cannot accept that kind of statement.

I'm pretty sure that I have done my 'research' before teaching them, because before starting to teach any group of students, most teachers would do some kind of 'test' to know the students' background knowledge. The same goes to me. It is the same process every single year. This is to help me to provide activities, exercises and tests according to their level of proficiency.

But when I heard that kind of statement, I could not accept the 'nag' word. It is not because it is a big deal or what, but the fact those students complaint to other students (which happens to be in my colleague's class) kills me silently. In English Department, we are just like family - we know everything that happens around us. It hurts me to hear such comments for I have mentioned earlier that they can ask me to teach them in a way that they will feel comfortable in learning English Language.

Human being is just like that, full with emotions and moods. I don't really blame them, but instead of telling the whole world that I'm not good at teaching 'you', why don't you go and find someone else to learn the language. It is not really hard for me to be a mean lecturer here. I just can switch myself to a very intolerant lecturer - then you will suffer the worst. Me, on the other hand would receive my salary just like anyone else in this field without having the guilt of doing so...

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Ignorance is not really a bliss...

Sometimes being ignorant won't help you in your life. Although "ignorance is a bliss", it is not necessarily for you to be ignorant all the time. There are situations which require you to pay attention and take action after that. If you are being ignorant all the time, you can be an outcast in the society even in your own family.

Examples for you not to be an ignorant person:

1.  During a meeting with your boss and co-workers.

2.  During a conversation among friends - even though you are not really
    comfortable to be a part of the conversation.

3.  When people smile at you whether you know them or not, smile back at
      them. It costs you nothing!

4.  When people say 'Hi' to you, reply it with a good manner although your
      mood at that time is not really good.

5.  When people ask you questions (related to you or not), please answer the questions politely. Don't
      simply walk away from them.

6.  When your partner / spouse / children need something from you (but you are too tired to give any 
      feedback or do anything), why don't you say something that can make them understand that you are not
     available at that moment. Don't simply throw a tantrum; act like a good adult.

7.  Even if you hate the person who is asking you a question, you have to answer it. Show to that person that
     you are not really that shallow minded kind of person.

8.  Know everything that happens around you, your colleagues, and your family - in the office, at home, at
     school and so on (gossip is not really included).

At least, show to the people around you that you are being a part of the society - whether at home or at work. I know that sometimes we need our own space, but still, there so many ways to do in order not to harm other people's feeling.

9.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Awkwardness is not helping...

Have you ever been into an awkward situation before? I'm pretty sure that most of us have been in so many awkward situations in our life. What kind of situation it could be? Well, it depends on you actually; whether you are the one who make things awkward to yourself or rather someone else is doing that to you. 



Being awkward is not really helping me in my life. There are times which I have to pretend that I'm not feeling awkward at all although my heart keeps telling me to at least say it out loud. I'm so afraid to be outspoken - afraid of hurting other people's feeling!

So...these are few methods I've been teaching myself in order to at least run away from any kind of awkward situations faced in my daily life. Hope they can save you too...:

1.    Smile to the person involved...don't say anything. Then just walk away from that person.

2.    If you need to talk to that person, talk lightly - make a quick conversation before leaving that person.

3.    Pretend that you are doing something with your phone - SMS, or make a short call; tell the person that
       you are making an important call.

4.    If you are living in the same house, it would help you if you just stay in your own room...doing something
       that can help to ease your feeling a bit.

5.   If you are in love with that person, it might help the both of you if you don't talk about that awkward
      situation; it will lead to a quarrel later. Just let it be...

6.    Move away from that person - if that person is giving you a headache!

Well, sometimes life is not easy for us...there are so many selfish people that can make our life miserable. Being an educated person taught me how to control my temper, although it is really hard. I know somehow we cannot simply control our emotion or action when facing any awkward moments especially when other people are messing up with our life!!!

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Si Penyewa Rumah...

Rasa macam nak naik angin saja bila melihat keadaan rumah kami di Rawang yang ditinggalkan sang penyewa rumah yang gagal melunaskan bayaran sewa selama 2 bulan. Sudahlah beberapa barang kami diangkut pergi, bayaran api dan air pun diminta tangguh bayarannya.



Suami saya hampir mengeluarkan bahasa yang tidak sepatutnya dia keluarkan. Terpancar kemarahan di wajahnya ketika dia sama-sama mengemaskan rumah yang ditinggalkan sang penyewa yang langsung tidak bertanggungjawab.

Mujurlah kesabaran kami berada dalam tahap yang maksima...:)

Saya ingin berkongsi pengalaman walaupun baru menjadi tuan rumah:

1.     Sediakan satu perjanjian sewaan rumah...Ditandatangani oleh tuan rumah, penyewa dan saksi. (Mujur
        kami menyediakannya sebelum menyewakan rumah kepada sang penyewa rumah).

2.     Kalau boleh, lantik seorang agen yang sangat anda percayai...memudahkan anda menerima sewa bersih
        tanpa perlu bergegas ke rumah sewa - maklumlah, penyewa ni macam-macam ragamnya.

3.    Jangan benarkan memaku di dinding sewenang-wenangnya. Habis rumah berlubang sana-sini.

4.    Tetapkan syarat bayaran pada tarikh yang dipersetujui bersama. (Kalau ada penangguhan bayaran,
       hanya setakat 2 kali sahaja...selepas itu, dengan hormatnya silalah keluar dari rumah ya...)

5.    Jika ada sebarang kerosakan di rumah, tuan rumah perlu membaikinya sendiri - jangan sekali-kali
       menyuruh penyewa membaikinya dan menolak dari wang sewa. Tindakan yang kurang bijak...(Mujur
       kami tidak membenarkan sang penyewa membaiki apa-apa pun di rumah kami...)

6.   Jangan membenarkan penyewa menyewa tanpa membayar deposit rumah, api dan air.

7.   Jika memberi notis keluar rumah, beri tempoh dalam masa sebulan sebelum penyewa keluar rumah.
      Pastikan penyewa tidak membuat 'sesuatu' yang buruk ke atas rumah anda. Buatlah 'kunjungan' mengejut.

Pengalaman merupakan sesuatu yang berharga. Jika anda menyewa rumah orang lain, ingatlah bahawa itu bukan rumah anda...jagalah dengan sebaiknya. Jika anda merupakan tuan rumah, bertindaklah dengan adil dan janganlah terlalu memberi muka kepada penyewa. Semua orang ada masalah tersendiri, tapi jangan sengaja membuatkan orang lain menyimpan amarah mereka terhadap anda...!!!

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